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I write about belief, empathy, work, politics, and what it actually means to stay kind and curious.
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From Mom’s Turkey to Macaroni: A Thanksgiving Story

Maybe it’s the food, maybe it’s the rituals, maybe it’s just the way families—blood or chosen—manage to form a circle around each other one day a year. Or maybe it’s that feeling of sitting at a table, realizing that no matter how traditions evolve, some things stay steady: the laughter, the warmth, and the stories that get retold whether you want them retold or not.

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Billionaires, Solidarity, and Why We Forgot We’re All on the Same Team

I’ve been thinking about why America glorifies billionaires while calling working people 'takers.' And the answer isn’t pretty: we stopped seeing each other as one community. Meanwhile, the countries actually doing well decided everyone counts. I wrote about it — because I think we’re overdue for a society that wins together.

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Pope’s Movie Taste and Why Opinions Aren’t Facts

With all due respect to the Holy See, these are the cinematic equivalent of someone telling you their favorite meal is “a nice chicken breast with no seasoning.” There’s nothing wrong with it. Totally valid. But also: this is a man who has access to the Vatican archives, decades of world cinema, thousands of films exploring philosophy, storytelling, ethics, and human meaning — and he came back with “Here are four movies they show in high school English class when the teacher forgets their laptop at home.”

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Pandemic Puppy

I named him Stout later—not just because of his color, but because he was sturdy, solid, something I could lean on without fear of breaking him.

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Pickles

At some point, apparently, I said “yes” to two different jars of pickles. One kosher. One… whatever the opposite of kosher is. Regular-ass pickles? Secular pickles?

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A tree.

Sometimes we get angry at the consequences because it hurts too much to look at the decisions — or circumstances — that put us there in the first place. Sometimes blame becomes a place to put grief when there’s nowhere else for it to go.

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Tomorrow is my brother’s birthday.

When someone you love stops having birthdays, it’s strange. It’s heavy in a different way. Because you’re celebrating someone who should still be celebrating with you.

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